Marilyn Scheffer (Née Pell)

Funeral Service: Sunday, March 05, 2023 at 10:00 AM
Chapel Service
Shiva: Sunday, March 05, 2023 to
Friday, March 10, 2023

Shiva Private, please contact Paperman & Sons for more information.
Shiva Details:
Shiva Monday through Thursday from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., and Friday 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m.
Cemetery: Kehal Israel Memorial Park
Donations:
Canadian Cancer Society, (514) 255-5151
Notes:
If you are unable to attend the funeral service in person, you may join it virtually on Sunday, March 5 at 10:00 a.m.: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCI44-JAG5dCDIjw49YmbZig/lives
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Arlene Goldberg - 14 days ago

Dear family, I came home from out of town late last night and bumped into Joel this morning and heard that my beautiful next door neighbour had passed away. Marilyn was one of the kindest people I have ever met, always a smile on her face despite her many health issues. I will miss seeing her warm smile. Please accept my deepest condolences. Arlene

Joyce and Seymour Bellman - 14 days ago

Dear Edna, Seymour and family, Our condolences on the loss of your sister . We are thinking of you and sending our love. Joyce and Seymour

David Rodman - 15 days ago

Nat...to you, your Sis & Dad, and fam.....wanted to extend my sincerest of condolences. I spent many a time and consumed many a chocolate chip cookie in your parents' house back in the good 'ol days! Keep all the memories of your mom close to your heart and she will be with you 4ever...xo

Arlene Selinsky - 15 days ago

Dear Thelma and family please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of such a sweet lady. May her memories remain in your hearts forever and be the source of strength that gets you all through the difficult days ahead. Baruch Dayan HaEmet.

Vivian Myron - 15 days ago

Please accept my sincere condolences on the great loss of Marilyn. She was truly surrounded by love. I wish you peace and strength during this very difficult time.

randy alper - 16 days ago

A wonderful neighbor for over 35 years my condolences to the Family. So sorry to hear about her passing.

Rhona Heisler - 16 days ago

Dear Thelma, so very sorry to learn about the loss of your sister. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. My deepest sympathy

Lynn Woloz - 16 days ago

Dear Rhonda and Natalie, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this very sad and difficult time

Roz and Norm Stotland, Marla and Stephen - 17 days ago

We were welcomed to the family over 45 years ago, the beginning of a close warm relationship that has endured over these many years. Simcha's to celebrate and within months the birth of our daughter Marla and three years later our son Stephen. So many family events and fond memories of Marilyn and her genuine curiosity and interest in what was going on in our lives. More than a step-sister, a loving and caring person who only had nice things to say, she avoided negativity. We will miss your warm smile, a smile that will remain in our hearts forever. Rest in peace..

Judi Blumstein - 17 days ago

i am so sorry to read about Marilyn,s passing. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. She was a fine and special lady.

Leah and Mel Adler - 17 days ago

To Joel and family: We, who were fortunate enough to have lived on 94th Avenue in Chomedey, have warm thoughts and wonderful memories of the kind and gentle people who lived on that street. Marilyn is remembered for her beautiful smile and calm nature. She laughed often, loved fiercely and enjoyed life fully. She was a devoted wife, mother, sister and friend and we were blessed to have been your neighbours. Leah and Mel Adler (411)

Howard Weigensberg - 17 days ago

My deepest condolences to the family Howard Weigensberg

Nettie & Irwin Klerer - 18 days ago

our sincere condolences

David Pinchuk - 18 days ago

Dear Rhonda , My sincerest condolences on the passing of your beloved mother . David Pinchuk

Sybil Rodman - 18 days ago

Dear Joel and family - sincere condolences on Marilyn's passing. Sybil

Susan Izak - 18 days ago

Please accept my expression of deepest sympathy

Beverly Albert - 18 days ago

Dear Joel, and family, please accept our sincere sympathy on Marilyn’s passing. We will always remember her as a warm, wonderful person with a twinkle in her eye. She will be missed. Bev & Len Albert.

Norma and Ronnie Elkin - 18 days ago

Dear Nathalie, sending our sincere condolences on your loss of your mother, may all your good memories help you through this difficult time and May you be spared any further sorrow.

Beverley Glassman - 18 days ago

Dear Thelma, my heartfelt condolences to you on the loss of your sister. My thoughts are with you at this time

Ihaza family - 18 days ago

Dear Nathalie, Rhonda and your family Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved mother. May you take comfort in your many sweet memories. Reka, Peter, Peter Jr, David and Simon

Rella Caplan - 18 days ago

Dear Joel, Edna, Thelma and all the family. On behalf of my sister Lorna Roth and myself, please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Marilyn. We are the daughters of the late Sylvia Roth, who was a cousin of Honey Pell. We wish you all good health and no more sorrow. Rella (Roth) Caplan.

Helen Karanofsky Zipes - 18 days ago

Dear Roz and Norm Our deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of your beloved sister. We hope your many happy memories will sustain you all during these sad times. Baruch Dayan Ha’Emet

Rheanna O'Reilly - 18 days ago

My deepest condolences to the whole family. I have nothing but fond memories as a child of Marilyn and her heartwarming nature. She was always smiling, kind and welcoming. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

Steven & Selina Smith - 18 days ago

Dear Uncle Joel, Rhonda, Natalie, Auntie Thelma, and Mom (Edna), Our hearts are broken for all of you. Not having your beautiful wife, mom, sister and grandmother to Daniel and Maya with us any more is truly sad. She was loved by everyone in each generation including by her son-in-laws Robbie and Ronen. May her memory always be a blessing to each and every one of you and may you find comfort in the many memories that you share. Auntie Marilyn was very special to me. I loved spending time with her at the many stages of my life from the time I was young and would sleep over in Montreal at the house, when I moved to Chomedey, to outings with Bubbie Sonia, creating brunches with family, having seders together and much more. I knew that I could share anything with her and she was always there to lend an ear, advice or just to catch up. We will all miss her and the many bags of matzah balls that she so happily made for joint seders. A piece of her will remain forever in each and everyone of us and her hugs will be missed. Selina, Steven, Ryan & Lily, Chelsea and Lindsey xoxo

Zelda Gurman - 18 days ago

Dear Thelma and family,I was sorry to hear about the passing of dear Marilyn, May all your fond memories be a source of comfort at this sad and difficult time. Zelda

Erin Campbell - 18 days ago

We were so sad to hear about Marilyn’s passing. She was such a special person who always took the time to ask you about your life and was genuinely interested in the response. Her positivity and kindness shone through and it’s clear that she had a significant impact on everyone who knew her. We feel lucky to have spent time with her over the years and are sending our sincere condolences. She will be so missed by all.

Mona Rosenblum - 18 days ago

Dear Natalie, Rhonda and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Your mom was such a nice and friendly lady! Sincerest condolences to the entire family, from Mona, Breanne and family.

Hinda Solloway & Harriet Solloway - 19 days ago

Dear Joel and family, please accept our heartfelt condolences on your tremendous loss. Marilyn was a beautiful person, with kindness beyond compare. Although it’s been so long since we have all connected, please know that our thoughts are with you. Hinda and Harriet

Gina Fogel - 19 days ago

To Thelma and all of Marilyn's family. I knew Marilyn through our Hadassah chapter, and have found her to be a very warm and pleasant lady, who smiled even as she went through difficult times. May the wonderful memories of her sustain you at this time and always.

Bunny Klemensberg - 19 days ago

Dear Thelma, Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your dear sister. May you be spared further sorrow and may your good memories help you at this difficult time. Bunny Klemensberg

Allan Schwartz - 19 days ago

Dear Rhonda, I’m so sorry to hear of mother’s passing. I will always remember how Marilyn as well as Joel always treated us teenagers so well, talking with us and joking as well. Those are some of the best times that I will always remember. I send my condolences and hope the many wonderful memories you all have of Marilyn will help you through this difficult time. Allan

Sonja Langburt - 19 days ago

To the Family, my deepest sympathies on the passing of Marilyn. May wonderful memories sustain you during this very difficult time. Sonja

Tal Azis - 19 days ago

Dear Nathalie, Rhonda and family , Please except our condolences. RIP dear Marilyn. Tal , Daniel & Liana

Lesley Warhaftig - 19 days ago

Sincere condolences to the family , sending courage and strength during this difficult time . Cherish all the memories.

The stern family - 19 days ago

Natalie and maya , we are so sorry for your loss- our deepest condolences- Lisa, Lexie and family

Terry Linetsky - 19 days ago

Dear Thelma, Rhonda and family. I met Marilyn on various family functions and remember what a lovely warm and charming person she was. Please accept my sincere condolences to everyone that loved her .

Rena Rubin - 19 days ago

I’ve had the pleasure of enjoying Marilyn’s fun loving company when joining her & her close friends, Barbara & Sandra. She was remarkable - always laughing & smiling despite all she had to endure. I hadn’t seen her for awhile, but I’ve been told she was a trooper to the end. To her loved ones, my deepest condolences for your loss. I know she will live on in your hearts & in your memories. Rena Rubin

Pamela Rosenblum Lipes - 19 days ago

Dear Natalie and family, my deepest condolences to the whole family. Pamela, Stanley, Mikayla and Frankie

Joanie Niederhoffer - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma, Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of your sister Marilyn . May she Rest In Peace . Joanir

Peggy Abitbol - 20 days ago

My brother,Sylvain and I send Joel,Natalie,Thelma and families our most sincere condolences. RIP Marilyn

DOREEN ROSENBLUM - 20 days ago

To all the family my deepest deepest condolences on your loss

Danny & Jackie Tansky - 20 days ago

Dear Natalie & family. We’re so sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences. May all your good memories help you through this difficult time

freda gasoi - 20 days ago

To the daughters & family of Marilyn I send saincere condolences. She was a special neighbour & friend always with a kind word for everyone. She will be missed.

Sarah Schmerer - 20 days ago

Dear Natalie & Robbie, My sincerest condolences to you and your family for your loss.

BLUMA MALINOFF - 20 days ago

l was so saddened to hear of Marilyn's passing. l met Marilyn through our Hadassah Chomedey Chapter. Always pleasant to be in her company. My deepest sympathies

Ruthie Zalter - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma, My condolences on the loss of your sister. You spoke so lovingly of her. Her illness must have been very difficult and painful. She now is at peace. Ruthie(from bridge)

Irving Leiner - 20 days ago

Dear Family and Friends. .It’s been far too many years since I’ve had the pleasure of sharing a friendships with Marilyn be it from the Carlton days and later on those carefree days involved with AZA and BBG. A most pleasant and uncomplicated friend. My deepest condolences

Doreen Brown - 20 days ago

Dear Rhonda and family I am just reading the Paperman obituary. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know your mother was an exceptional person. She adored all of you. Please accept my sympathies at this very sad time. May the wonderful memories you shared be a comfort to you at this time. Baruch Dayan HaEmet. Doreen

warren Gornitsky - 20 days ago

Dear Natalie My condolences on the terrible loss of your mom. Thinking of you during this difficult time Warren Gornitsky

Elana, Pam, Reecia - 20 days ago

Dear Joel, Rhonda and Natalie and family, It is with deep sadness that we send our condolences to you for the loss of your amazing wife and mother. Marilyn was such a beautiful person. She was a devoted friend, and so kind to everyone she met. We are so grateful for her lifelong friendship with our parents and we know that they will miss her everyday. Sending you strength during this unbelievably difficult time. With love, Elana and Pam and Reecia Orzeck and families

Pearl Berman - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma and Scheffer family, My sincere and heartfelt condolences for your loss. Marilyn was a very outgoing person, very courageous, and never complaining about how she felt. May happy and shared memories being you comfort at this very. sad time. Pearl Berman

Howard Greenfield - 20 days ago

My condolences to Thelma and family.

Beverly Yaffy - 20 days ago

Dear Joel, Thelma and family I was sad to learn the passing of Marilyn. Lots of memories from Chomedey days. Marilyn was a warm friendly lady with a beautiful smile. My deepest sympathy to all the families. Beverly

Rose Rose - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma,Joel and family, My deepest sympathy on the great loss of a very special woman.I feel sad for those who did not know her,and a great loss for for those that did.We met at a Hadassah and kept in touch by phone ever sinceShe was a beautiful lady inside and out.we shared our health issues and she had a positive attitude .May her memory remain an inspiration to you always.Rest in peace my dear friend.

Diane Newbery - 20 days ago

Dear Joel and family, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Marilyn. My memories of her go back many years as she was a good friend to my sister. I also remember babysitting for Rhonda when she was a baby when you lived upstairs from her parents on Carlton. Again, my sincere condolences, sincerely, Diane (née Winter)

Sandra samra - 20 days ago

Sorry to hear of Marilyn’s passing. Our mothers were very close friends and we were friends as well when we had young families. Marilyn had many years of difficult health issues, and may she rest in peace

Evan & Randi (Katsof) Shuster - 20 days ago

Dear Joel, Rhonda, Natalie, Edna, Seymour and Family, We were saddened to hear of Marilyn's passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Fondly, Evan & Randi (Katsof) Shuster

Brenda Wener - 20 days ago

DearJoel, Rhonda, Nathalie & Campbell families and Moishe. My heartfelt condolences to you all. She was a very special lady.

Amy Frank - 20 days ago

Dear Natalie and Family, We send our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mom. May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.

Sara Melamed - 20 days ago

Dear Edna, Seymour Thelma & Family. So sorry to hear the passing of Marilyn. Marilyn was a beautiful Lady. Our thoughts are with you at is sad time. May her memory be for a blessing. Sara and Bernie Melamed

Lorna Bierbrier - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma and family, my heart goes out to you on your great loss. Marilyn was such a warm and lovely person who bravely fought for many years. I know how much she will be missed and hope that fond memories will help you through this sad time. Rest in peace Marilyn.

Doreen Barmash - 20 days ago

Dear family. I met Marilyn only once at our mutual friend’s birthday dinner. I was immediately struck by her openness, warmth, ability to communicate in a genuine manner, and her humor. She will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences.

Stefanie Demberg - 20 days ago

Sending my deepest condolences to all of you. Marilyn was one of a kind- she had a smile and a kind word for everyone and I have fond memories of her from celebrations and special occasions together. May your happy memories bring you comfort at this difficult time. Thinking of you. Stefanie

Edith Gold Irkeans - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma Please accept my sincerest condolences

Lyor Bensoussan - 20 days ago

Dear Natalie and Robbie, My sincere condolences on the loss of your mom. My thoughts are with you.

Audrey Kirstein - 20 days ago

Dear Natalie and family, Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beautiful Mother. May her memory be a source of comfort and your grief a testament of your relationship❤️

Pamela Ticker - 20 days ago

Dear Rhonda and Natalie; sending you condolences on the passing of your mother. She was a lovely lady. May her memory bring you comfort during this very difficult time.

Lori Mann - 20 days ago

Dear Uncle Joel, Rhonda, Nathalie and family. My sincerest condolences on the loss of Auntie Marilyn. She was a dear kind hearted soul with so much love to give to everyone around her. I have the fondest childhood memories when we would visit and spend time together. She has always been a part of our lives and a was dear friend to my mum for 70 years. She will be sorely missed. May you rest in peace. Sending love and strength during this difficult time.

Roslyn Pfefer - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma, My deepest condolences on the profound loss of your dear sister. She was a very warm and caring person and will certainly be missed. My thoughts are with you and her family at this sad time. Fondly, Ros Pfefer

Sharon Shrybman - 20 days ago

Dear Thelma, please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your sister. At last, she is now at peace. May you know no more sorrow. With my sympathy, Sharon

Barbara GLazer - 20 days ago

Dear Rhonda, Ronan, Natalie, Robbie, Joel and family, My deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved Marilyn. I hope all your wonderful memories will help sustain you during during this. very sad time. Sending you hugs. Barbara

sheila & mel kaufman - 20 days ago

to Joel and family we were so sorry to hear of your loss. please accept our heartfelt condolences Sheila and Mel Kaufman

Brenda & Jack Noodelman - 20 days ago

To all of Marilyn's family, We are so sorry for your great loss. Marilyn was a true warrior and a pillar of her family. We always admired her. She will be greatly missed. Sending hugs, Brenda and Jack and family.

Harris Black - 20 days ago

My sincere condolences.

Tobi Goodman - 20 days ago

Dear Rhonda , Nathalie, Joel , Thelma, Michael, Iris, and families, my deepest condolences on your tremendous loss. She was an incredibly warm, positive person. She will be missed. May your wonderful memories bring you comfort.

Betina Shadowitz - 20 days ago

Dear Nathalie and Rhonda, Please accept my condolences on the loss of your beloved mother. May you take comfort in your many memories. Fondly, Betina

Janice Katsof - 20 days ago

Dear Joel, Rhonda, Nathalie & family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Marilyn was a wonderful woman and a dear friend to my mom. She will be greatly missed. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Bella Tilner - 21 days ago

Dear Joel, Rhonda and Nathalie and family. My deepest condolences on the loss of my dear friend of over 60 years. I will miss her terribly, she was a great person and a great friend who always had a smile on her face. May you all be spared and further sorrow. Love, Bella

Rhoda Kastner - 21 days ago

So sorry for your loss

Sandra and Albert Orzeck - 21 days ago

Dear Joel, Rhonda,Natalie,Thelma, Edna and the whole family, My deepest sympathies to you all. Marilyn was truly a special person who gave of herself to everyone around her. Her warmth and compassion was felt by everyone she met. She was my friend and more like a sister for almost 70 years. She will be terribly missed. May her memory be a blessing to all who knew her.

Evie and Irving Applebee - 21 days ago

Dear Joel, Thelma and family. Our sincerest condolences. We are truly saddened by the passing of Marilyn. She was unbelievably strong and courteous and so beautiful inside and out. She was a special friend of many years and a member of our Golda Meir chapter family. She will be very much missed Our hearts go out to all of you. Evie and Irving ❤️

Leslie Ann Ungar Wener - 21 days ago

Dear Thelma and family; M|y deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved sister, Marilyn. May she rest in peace. Leslie.

Soryl Cohen - 21 days ago

To the Scheffer and Pell Families: Marilyn and I were very good friends in high school, we lost track of each other after that. I will always remember her as kind, thoughtful and a wonderful person. So sorry to hear how she suffered. May she rest in peace. Soryl Cohen (Florida)

Maria and Motti Bembaron - 21 days ago

Dear Natalie, Robbie and family. Our sincerest condolences for your loss.

Bernie & Rickiee Ship Itovitch - 21 days ago

Dear Thelma & Family Our sincere condolences on the loss of Marilyn .My friendship with Marilyn began when Rhonda was a baby .May all your fond memories be a source of comfort at this sad & difficult time & May you know of no further sorrow.

Mandy Menshick - 21 days ago

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom was such a beautiful woman inside and out. I will always remember her smile. May she rest in peace. My sincere condolences to all of you.

Susan Philip - 21 days ago

Dear Natalie, Robbie, Maya and family. Heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved mother and grandmother. May your happy memories sustain you during your grief. Susan Philip (Mandy's mom)

Judy Turowetz - 21 days ago

Dear Joel and the whole family, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of dear Marilyn. May your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time. My sincere condolences, Judy Turowetz Judy

Helen Wolfe - 21 days ago

Condolences to the family. Helen Wolfe and Sam Ksieznicki.

Rosie saxe - 21 days ago

Rhonda, I send you my condolences on the loss of your mom.

Ivy Rabinovitch - 21 days ago

Dear Rhonda and Nathalie, I’m so sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing. My thoughts are with you. Ivy

Toby Shulman - 21 days ago

Dear Thelma, I am very sorry for your profound loss. May your family be comforted as the mourners of Zion & Jerusalem & suffer no more sorrows.

Syd Baum - 21 days ago

My condolences on your loss BDH”

Sharon & Morris Katsof - 21 days ago

Dear, Joel, Rhonda & Natalie and family Our hearts broke to hear the passing of Marilyn, She was an amazing woman full of courage and hope. I will miss my friend of more than 50 years Our deepest condolences to you all.

Diane Antonelli - 21 days ago

My deepest sympathies to Marilyn's family and friends.

Barbara & Kevin - 21 days ago

Dearest Joel,Rhonda,Natalie, Edna, Thelma and family my deepest condolences on this very profound loss, heartbroken and devastated on the loss of my lifelong childhood friend of 70 years. Rest in peace dear angel your suffering is over and all will carry you in our hearts forever. ❤️

shoshana nathan - 21 days ago

Wishing to all the family my deepest condolences and may you be spared any further sorrow. with love, Shoshana.

Sarah and David Wiseman - 21 days ago

Our sincere condolences to the Scheffer family on the loss of your wife, mother, mother in law and grandmother . May memories of Marilyn and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. May you treasure all your memories. Sarah and David (Greta’s children)

stan & marilyn plant - 21 days ago

To the family of Marilyn we would like to express our deepest condolences, Marilyn was a wonderful human being that never complained about her health problems. She was always there for everyone, May her soul rest in peace, always remember the good and special times you all spent together.

Garry Saltzman - 21 days ago

To the whole family we are so sorry to hear of the loss of Marilyn she was a mother and and aunt to myself and my wife and my sisters. She is in a better place and not suffering anymore .we love you all and are here for anything you need